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Benmaths Jr Aghangu

Grandson · Montréal, QC

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Benmaths Jr AghanguGrandsonMontréal, QCShared 28 June 2026

When I think of Grandpa, I remember the kind person he was and the impact he had on everyone around him. His life was filled with quiet lessons, unforgettable memories, and an example that will stay with us for years. I consider myself very lucky to have called him my grandfather. One memory stands out. I remember my first day of high school. I felt nervous just walking onto the school grounds. Sensing my anxiety, Grandpa offered to walk with me. As we got closer, my nerves grew, and halfway there I hesitated, unsure if I wanted to go on. When I looked up, I saw Grandpa a few steps ahead of me. Without saying anything, he looked back, motioned for me to keep walking, and waited for me to catch up. Looking back now, I see that moment perfectly shows who Grandpa was. He had a way of giving people strength without saying much. Sometimes all it took was his presence to remind you that you weren't walking alone. From a young age, Grandpa taught me to hold my head up and walk with purpose. What seemed like a simple lesson became one I carried with me throughout life. He lived with integrity, discipline, and determination. He showed me that character isn't built by words, but by how we live every day. He also had an adventurous spirit. He loved to explore, always discovering new streets and places. He showed me parts of the neighborhood I had never noticed before. Those walks together are some of my favorite memories. And of course, I’ll never forget his signature side-eye—that look followed by a smile that somehow said everything without words. More than anything, Grandpa was a devoted husband, a loving father, and a cherished grandfather. He loved his family deeply and showed it through his time, his consistency, and just being there for us. I strive to live by the example he set: to be kind, to work hard, to live with integrity, and to always walk through life with my head held high. Grandpa, thank you for every lesson, every adventure, every smile, and every quiet moment of encouragement. Your influence lives on in all of us, and I will always be grateful to have called you my grandfather. May you rest in peace. "I have fought a good fight, I have finished my course, I have kept the faith." — 2 Timothy 4:7